WHEN YOUR LOVED ONES PASSED AWAY, WERE YOU BY THEIR SIDE SHARING YOUR FINAL THOUGHTS?
IF NOT, WOULD YOU LIKE TO HAVE A SECOND CHANCE TO SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON-LINE AND FIND PEACE WITHIN YOURSELF? Sometimes friends and loved ones pass on before we have the chance to say our final goodbyes. There are many reasons why we miss the opportunity. Perhaps the family of the person dying was experiencing such grief, that they could not accept that their loved one's time had come. Sometimes it's because family squabbles have kept the family apart, leaving them to learn about their loved ones passing only by reading it in the paper. For still others, it's because they were out of town on business or vacation.
Whatever the reasons for not being there, most of us would love to have the opportunity to try and make peace with our friends and loved ones one last time. Even if they have already passed on.
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Having personally missed the opportunity to make peace with my mother, I found that it made me feel better to write my thoughts and feelings down on paper. I thought that if I wrote them down she would somehow see them and understand everything that I would have said to her.
I'd felt guilty that I had not been there to help ease her fears in the final moments of her life. It took me a long time to realize that I could never have predicted the exact time when she would be taken from us, and that I was allowing myself to accept all of this guilt. I found that the best way for me to eliminate it was to write down everything I had wanted to say to her while she was alive, and it was only through this practice that I began to feel better.
If you would like to post your final messages on-line to my message board, please click on the link below... |
