Even if it does "exist" as some type of personality disorder, many think it certainly is not a disease. |
Some of the characteristics associated with it appear to correspond to socialized behaviors that are primarily negative female stereotypes (e.g., nurturant, motherly, a caretaker of the family, unassertive, lacking in confidence and self-esteem, indecisive, self-sacrificing, faithful, choosing partners that need help and need saving etc.), so women's rights activists do not like the term and what it implies. |
Women seem to be over-represented in the ranks of "codependents" - while most partners of female alcoholics eventually leave the relationship, most partners of male alcoholics stay with their mate longer, or do not leave the relationship. |
The label is another way to "pathologize" or diagnose people as somehow being different or deviant. |
On the other hand, many people feel better when they can put a name to their painful experiences, so they welcome the label and derive benefit from self-help groups like Codependents Anonymous. |
Effects of Codependency on the Mind and Body |
Isn't Everyone Codependent? |
Why Do We Become Codependent? What Causes It? |