I Have a Crush on a Friend : Part One
There are different categories of crush:
some are on friends and some are on total strangers. I'll talk about crushes on
friends first. Right from the beginning, you never thought he was good-looking,
or maybe he even already has a girlfriend. You knew your boundaries and
everything was fine...You enjoyed being with him, going out together with your
mutual friends...and then you find that you get along so well with him, the two
of you click so well, that you find yourself starting to like him...and it gets
worse as you spend more time together. His foolish smile, how well he treats
you, just add to your feelings. Now you know you have a HUGE crush on him...You
remind yourself: stop! He is out of reach...he's only a friend...he treats you
as a friend only...or he already has an on-off girlfriend....but he never ever
mentions his girlfriend ever....why?...you
wonder....maybe, just maybe, he finds himself liking you too...and he doesn't
want to face the problem...he treats you better everyday...Is is just
platonic??? Or does he like you???...You are so confused, you think about him
everyday and you just can't sort things out...AND you are here to look for
answers...
I'm no love guru, I can't tell you whether he likes you or not...I don't
know, and neither do you. But I
hope I can give you a clearer picture of how you feel....those love calculators,
love tests are all phoney and we all know that...but they are still so important
to you right? We all go through these teenage years and we all suffer these
heartaches...there is nothing much we can do except wait for these feelings to
fade...or wait for someone else to take his place...someone who has a greater
chance of reciprocating your feelings...My little advice is: don't let your
mutual friends know...unless they are YOUR friends and not HIS...because his
friends are very likely to tell him...and if he's a nice guy...he'll give you a
call and talk things out...if he isn't, well....things could get awkward...he
might start avoiding you. But
for those brave gals out there, who dare pursue what they want, I would
encourage you to tell him...things can't get worst...you can still be friends
right???......For the rest of us...well...we are afraid to lose our friendship,
or face it....we don't want to be rejected. Kayla's experience has been
that most of the time he really treats you as a friend (*heart shatters*). The
best things come when you least expect it...remember this and don't let anything
depress you...SMILE and someone else may fall in love. To the world you maybe be
someone...but to someone you may be the world...Sometimes we only notice the
brightest star...but somewhere out there, another star might be shining just for
you...
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